Longing for your partner while they are away? Phone sex is a great way to stay connected and add some spice to your love life – long-distance or otherwise! We have some tips for you on turning the heat up with phone sex...
Pick a time in advance
Sure, you can talk or SMS each other at any time. But it is probably for the best when you decide a time that is good for the both of you in advance, especially if it is your first time. This way both of you can be sure you're not in a rush or stressed and can be comfortable before getting hot and heavy!
Get each other in the mood
You can begin to set the mood with a bit of sexting. Send him a sexy picture of yourself or tell her what you'd like to do to her later. Once you start sexting each other, you'll get each other in the mood for later.
Beat the tension
When you are feeling stressed, it's hard to let go and just enjoy yourself. So prior to your telephone date, make sure you have some time to unwind. Pour yourself some wine or listen to some music, or do a silly dance in front of the mirror. Speak slowly and softly, close your eyes and ensure that you won't be disturbed.
Have faith
Nothing is more important in phone sex than having trust in the person who is at the other end of the line. Since it's mostly talking, you can feel more vulnerable and you need to be sure the person at the other end of the line won't be laughing at you. It can feel odd in the beginning, but the sharing of private details and fantasies will soon mean you forget everything around you.
Fantasise freely
Phone sex is a great way to share your deepest fantasies with your partner, especially those that are difficult to do in person. Once you and your partner get better at it, you will really enjoy carrying out your fantasy that you might find too risky to carry out in person.