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MUREITHI: Mama Phoebe Asiyo: A heartfelt farewell to a champion for children

We honour and celebrate the life of a distinguished and devoted life member of the Child Welfare Society of Kenya

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by IRENE MUREITHI

Star-blogs06 August 2025 - 17:39
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In Summary


  • Dr Asiyo dedicated herself wholeheartedly to the Society’s mission to promote and secure the rights of children and vulnerable young persons, enabling them to realise their full potential.
  • She served as Chief Executive Officer of the Society from 1969 to 1980, having succeeded Pamela Mboya, who stepped down following the death of her husband, Thomas Joseph Mboya, on July 5, 1969.
President Kenyatta and his wife, Mama Ngina Kenyatta, are pictured after being presented with a cheque for 25,000/- for the extensions of the baby wing of Mama Ngina Children's Home by Mrs. McLinnes (with glasses, second from right) on behalf of the wives of the envoys represented by Mrs. Kalyati (third from left), Mrs. Paik, wife of the Korean Ambassador to Kenya and Mrs. Delden, wife of the French Ambassador to Kenya. Also in the picture is the Deputy Mayor for Nairobi, Coun. Andrew. Ngumba and the Chief Executive Officer of the Child Welfare Society of Kenya. Mrs.Asiyo, partly hidden in Deq, December 1973.

If one were to crown a person as the embodiment of love, protection, and unwavering concern for the welfare of Kenya’s children, Dr Phoebe Muga Asiyo would wear that crown with unmatched grace.

We honour and celebrate the life of a distinguished and devoted life member of the Child Welfare Society of Kenya (CWSK), colleague, and mentor.

Dr Asiyo dedicated herself wholeheartedly to the Society’s mission to promote and secure the rights of children and vulnerable young persons, enabling them to realise their full potential.

She served as Chief Executive Officer of the Society from 1969 to 1980, having succeeded Pamela Mboya, who stepped down following the death of her husband, Thomas Joseph Mboya, on July 5, 1969.

During this time, Mama Phoebe emerged as a towering figure in the field of child care and protection, playing a pivotal role in the development of childcare and protection systems in Kenya.

Her leadership significantly increased the Society’s reach to vulnerable children.

Her deep commitment to orphaned, abandoned, and at-risk children helped shape Kenya’s adoption and family-based care frameworks, laying the foundation for progressive child protection.

She received children from across the country and addressed their needs, including helping to place some of them in families. She also served as Guardian Ad Litem, representing children’s interests in court, for many of them.

Under her stewardship, CWSK was approved as an Adoption Society, mandated to provide adoption, guardianship, and foster care services on behalf of the government.

Child Welfare Society of Kenya received a cheque for £100 from the Diplomatic Wives Association of Kenya. The cheque was presented to Mrs. Phoebe Asiyo, Executive Officer of the society, at Mama Ngina Kenyatta Children's Home in Nairobi. Presenting the cheque on behalf of the association was Mrs. Betty Dafni, Vice President of the association and wife of the Israeli Ambassador to Kenya, Mr. Reuven Dafni.

She was a strong advocate for the sector and actively lobbied for increased government funding for children’s services, including a personal appeal to then President Mwai Kibaki to increase funding for CWSK, an appeal that was effected in the 2010 national budget.

Her vision was simple, yet profound: every child deserves a safe, nurturing, and loving home.

This belief shaped the Society’s early policy and advocacy efforts.

Mama Phoebe brought compassion and boldness to her role, often challenging societal norms and legislative gaps that left children and women unprotected.

She was articulate and meticulous in her work, including mentoring many of us at CWSK through a culture grounded in the highest standards of professionalism, a legacy that still defines the organisation today.

Even after transitioning into the demanding world of politics, her commitment to the well-being of Kenya’s children remained unchanged.

Long after her tenure at CWSK, she continued to be a guiding presence, mentoring me personally and steadfastly championing her bold, compassionate vision for the welfare of children.

As we reflect on her extraordinary life, we are reminded that true leadership is selfless service to humanity. Mama Phoebe served with grace, wisdom, and purpose.

Child Welfare Society of Kenya received a cheque for £100 from the Diplomatic Wives Association of Kenya. The cheque was presented to Mrs. Phoebe Asiyo, Executive Officer of the society, at Mama Ngina Kenyatta Children's Home in Nairobi. Presenting the cheque on behalf of the association was Mrs. Betty Dafni, Vice President of the association and wife of the Israeli Ambassador to Kenya, Mr. Reuven Dafni.

We extend our heartfelt condolences to her family, friends, and all whose lives she touched. Mama Phoebe, you received the babies of our motherland with open arms.

You gave them food, clothing, education, and shelter. You found them families and temporary shelter, from the Coast at Mji Wa Salama in Mombasa, to Eastern at the children’s homes in Isiolo and Embu, from the Rift Valley at Nakuru’s Arap Moi Children’s Home to Kanduyi Children’s Home in Bungoma, Western Kenya, from Mama Ngina Children’s Home in Nairobi to Nyanza at Kisii Children’s Home and Mama Ngina Children’s Home, Kisumu.

You gave thousands of disadvantaged children not just care, but a reason to live.

Many of them are now accomplished men and women in Kenya and beyond, while others are still being nurtured in the very institutions you helped build, places rooted in your values of professionalism, compassion, and love.

You have left behind a profound legacy. Truly, you were a great mother to many.

The CEO, staff of CWSK, and the children were blessed to have you as our matriarch.

Your love will forever be cherished in our hearts.

We loved you dearly.

Farewell, Mama Phoebe.

By Irene Mureithi,  CEO/Managing Trustee, Child Welfare Society of Kenya

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