- It is your female friends who will undress you in public behind your back, jeering at your nakedness because they are jealous of you
- It is a female relative who will listen to your ex’s berating unsubstantial tales about you. She will then share it with her chama as a “prayer item”
There is a currency that is peddled out here. It is used to keep women “in their place”. The currency of shame.
For centuries, it has been used to silence women, to tame women, to punish ...