- The book dubbed Pendo’s Power features a girl named Pendo, and her two friends Tumaini and Bahati.
- Pendo’s parents are conversant with the vulnerability of child sexual abuse and have educated Pendo about what abuse looks like.
Human Rights Organisation Freely In Hope has released its first illustrated storybook that equips children to use the power of their voices to stop child abuse which is growing at an alarming rate.
The book dubbed Pendo’s Power features a girl named Pendo, and her two friends Tumaini and Bahati.
Pendo’s parents are conversant with the vulnerability of child sexual abuse and have educated Pendo about what abuse looks like.
They have taught Pendo how she can prevent abuse by speaking up anytime she feels unsafe. Pendo uses this knowledge to help her two friends who have encountered different forms of sexual abuse.
She helps them gain the confidence to speak up about moments when they felt unsafe, and as a result, a perpetrator of child sexual abuse is taken away from the neighborhood.
“Through this resource, parents and caregivers will feel equipped to initiate and facilitate conversations with their children surrounding consent, body autonomy, and sexual abuse prevention. I believe that these conversations will drastically reduce the rates of child sexual abuse in the world at large,” said Lydia Matioli Author of Pendo’s Power and Program Director, Freely In Hope.
“Perpetrators have an advantage over children because children are uninformed, but when both children and parents are aware of sexual abuse, abusers will not have the room to continue.”
Matioli who is a child sexual abuse survivor says her experience inspired her to create a resource that would reduce the country's alarming rate of child sexual abuse.
The themes featured in Pendo’s Power include consent, healthy body boundaries, safe and unsafe touch, speaking up, community values, positive parenting and justice.
“I have been inspired by the stories of survivors in our community and motivated by our common desire to create safe environments for children in Kenya and all around the world. This book is very important to me because I am now a mother to a beautiful baby girl. I am terrified of all the vulnerabilities that she could be exposed to, including sexual abuse.”
“I know that I cannot be around her at all times but I do not want my daughter to go through the same thing that I did at 5 years old, or worse! I want my daughter to be educated on what abuse could look like through the eyes of another child,” she added.
The 2022 report on child sexual exploitation and abuse, dubbed “Out of the Shadows Index 2022" developed by The Economist Impact reveals that sexually exploited children are often let down by the criminal justice system and the slow implementation of policies in the country.
The report indicated that five barriers to justice for sexually abused children include legislation, policies and programmes, national capacity and commitment, justice processes and support service and recovery.
"Priority needs to be given to abuse cases as they are time-sensitive. The child is at the crime scene and the evidence depletes quickly. As parents we should be more bold and speak up about these sexual conversations," International Justice Mission Esther Njuguna said during the launch.
The report which tracks how countries are preventing and responding to Child Sexual Exploitation and Abuse (CSEA) ranks countries on how their laws, programs and policies are effective in safeguarding the welfare of children. Child sexual exploitation and abuse is defined as any exploitative and abusive sexual activity involving a child.
In many cases, CSEA leads to a lifetime of physical and emotional trauma for survivors.
"Most of these stories of brokenness start in childhood that is why it is important to start this sexual education as early as possible. A lot of young people are hurting and we need more educators equipped with trauma care and sexual education," Imarika Youth Kenya Ken Odhiambo said.
The survey of about 60 countries globally ranked Kenya 21st overall and second in Africa for its strides in coming up with policies that avert and respond to child sexual exploitation and abuse.
However, only victims and those that help them get justice feel the missing gap in the implementation of policies.
"This book is affirming the role we as parents and caregivers have to play in keeping the next generation safe by having these uncomfortable conversations with our loved ones. Sex education should start as early as two years old because they see, they observe and take it in," Matioli noted.
In Kenya, the latest data from Freely In Hope indicate that 33 per cent of girls experience sexual violence before they turn 18 while 23 per cent of girls are married off before they turn 18.
Moreover, every 30 minutes a woman is raped.
Every year, over 400 million children around the world are exposed to child sexual exploitation and abuse.
The Kenya National Library Services pledged to partner with the author in the months to come to include her book as part of their collection as an e-book as the KNLS plans to launch their 65th branch which will be an online library, Julie Musandu KNLS Deputy director finance and administration said.
Additionally, the deputy director at the Directorate of Child Protective Services David Magogo noted that parents need to realise that everywhere is unsafe for children but should be able to help children realise what is within them.
"A survey conducted in 2019 found that one out of five young girls in Kenya experience sexual abuse. We need to put more emphasis on prevention measures to deal with the abuses at hand," he said.