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It’s better to be divorced than dead! Sonko says as he steps up campaign against GBV

“It is better to have a divorce decree in your house than a eulogy booklet for your daughter or son."

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by BRIAN ORUTA

News19 November 2025 - 11:00
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In Summary


  • Sonko said he has been inundated with distress calls from survivors and families across the country, describing the volume of complaints as “alarming and overwhelming.”
  • He urged government agencies, civil society organisations, women’s groups and advocacy networks to unite in combating what he termed a growing national crisis.
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Former Nairobi Governor Mike Sonko has intensified his public campaign against gender-based violence (GBV), warning that rising cases of abuse and domestic attacks require urgent and coordinated action.

Sonko said he has been inundated with distress calls from survivors and families across the country, describing the volume of complaints as “alarming and overwhelming.”

He urged government agencies, civil society organisations, women’s groups and advocacy networks to unite in combating what he termed a growing national crisis.

“We will not leave it at that, and the best way is to partner with all stakeholders in this GBV field,” Sonko said.

“Whether NGOs, women groups or all persons advocating for the rights of our mothers, we must work together.”

The former governor advised individuals trapped in violent relationships to prioritise their safety, saying a legal separation is far better than risking fatal outcomes.

“It is better to have a divorce decree in your house than a eulogy booklet or death certificate for your daughter or son,” he said.

“Whether you are from a rich or poor family, it doesn’t matter.”

Sonko highlighted a recent case involving young woman, Mumbi Kanyaga, whose death he said exemplifies the deadly consequences of intimate partner violence.

According to him, Mumbi died after an altercation with her boyfriend in Nairobi West. She was reportedly attacked by the boyfriend and his friends, and later pronounced dead in hospital.

Her body is currently at Montezuma Funeral Home in Kabati.

“As we are speaking, they are in Lang’ata Police Station. It’s a murder case,” Sonko said, calling for justice for the victim and her family.

He appealed to law enforcement, community leaders and the public to strengthen collaboration to protect women and girls nationwide.

“All stakeholders, the police and everybody, let us partner and work together to ensure all our mothers—whether young, old, poor or rich—can stand firm to ensure this GBV thing comes to an end,” he said.

Sonko’s renewed campaign adds to calls for stronger prevention programmes, faster investigations and more robust support systems for survivors.

It comes just days after he confronted his son-in-law amid domestic violence allegations after his daughter made a distressing call to her parents.

In a video shared on Sonko’s social media, he rushed to his daughter’s home following her appeal for help.

According to the clip, the dispute allegedly began innocuously, a simple question about breakfast, but escalated rapidly into a physical altercation.

In an audio recording, Sonko’s daughter tells her mother, “I’m not okay… I just asked for breakfast, and I have been slapped twice. I didn’t have money, and I’ve been telling him the kids are hungry.”

When Sonko arrived, he is seen confronting his son-in-law, but he also repeatedly orders his security team and aides to refrain from violence, making it clear that retaliation wouldn’t resolve anything.

In a powerful statement, Sonko expressed his heartbreak, not just as a father, but as someone deeply disturbed by the broader issue of domestic abuse.

 “Today, we received a distress call from our daughter that shook us to the core, her voice trembling, her spirit broken,” he said.

“As a parent, nothing prepares you for the moment your child reaches out in fear or desperation. I acted immediately because no mother or father can sit still when their child is hurting,” Sonko said.

He used the incident to shine a light on the hidden suffering many Kenyans endure.

“If my own daughter can face harassment in her home, what about the countless young women and men in Kenya who suffer silently, with no one to defend them?” he asked.

Sonko urged couples to deal with conflict through conversation, not violence.

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