Every time a woman posts a photo on social media, men rush to zoom the photo and type ‘RIP’ to the fallen soldiers. This is sad and shows a lack of good upbringing. Women go through a lot to bring life into this world. It is only natural for the body to change during or after pregnancy.
Breast cancer, weight loss, eating habits, lack of physical exercise, sunrays, hot showers and ageing all make the breasts sag.
It is high time men got educated because their selfish comments are causing insecurities and lowering women's self-esteem to the extent that they sink into depression and develop suicidal thoughts.
Many women have gone for surgery to make their breasts firm to spare themselves the body shaming. Most of these surgeries and creams have done more harm than good.
Women also go for plastic surgery to enlarge their buttocks because men have nicknamed them ‘flat screen’. Stop expecting perfection from women.
You want a woman with a tiny waist, large hips, light complexion, large firm breasts, God-fearing, submissive and not after your ‘gold’. All that in one! You better get some clay and make your own woman. Better still, go for the woman you want and leave the rest alone.
It is a shame that women also join men in body shaming fellow women. When you call each other fat and ugly, men will never learn to respect women. Do not find joy in putting a fellow woman down.
That said, men are also victims of cyberbullying. Men have been ridiculed for being beardless, obese or short. If you don't like a beardless man, go for the one with a beard. Human beings have been created different—in complexion, height and weight.
These are sensitive issues that humans have no control over and can lead to mental breakdown. My advice is go for your class and learn to accept the rest as they are. Their looks do not interfere with your life after all.
And women, as you embrace your body, cover yourselves appropriately. In as much as you want to show off your sexy body, do not show too much skin. Your private parts should remain private. You would not like everyone to see your breasts on social media right? This will minimise your chances of being cyberbullied.
