Has anyone noticed how aggressive lesbians can be even when you have clarified that you prefer hard to soft things? Can we start reporting them for harassment? I mean just because we are both women does not give you a get-out-of-jail card, yawa. Harassment is harassment.
Anyway, women are doing those things again. Breaking homes, making others kill men, dressing to confuse men, and misleading other men by wearing gold eyelids.
It is so ironic that men claim to be more intelligent, more powerful, and emotionally stable but you will hear a grown man saying a woman, often younger than him, made him leave his wife and children.
I am flabbergasted by the idea that these strong men who want to be leaders of everything from the home to the world would put the woman in a place where she is the gatekeeper of society's morals. They know everything but when they are ducking up, it is a woman’s fault.
After drinks with a group of friends, Guy (is what we are calling him) calls a lady the day after and tells her to go to his house so that they can relax. (This relaxing owada requires people to be two by two).
She says no, that is not her style, they just met the day before and it was not that kind of drink up. Of course, Guy tries to negotiate using guilt-tripping and shame. They do not work so he uses his last weapon, insolence, before hanging up on her.
Confused about this grown man’s behaviour, the woman narrates the phone conversation to her male friend. He then asks her, “what about you made him think you could go to his house?” Do you see what he did there?
He decided that a grown man felt entitled to call a woman a day after meeting her in a group and asked her to carry her bones and flesh across the city to have sex with her because she made him feel that way by being a decent human being.
Yani you guys can be serious jokers. You meet a guy at the club, you have a good conversation. About politics, religion and or music. He asks for your number and you give it to him because where you are from, you expect that he will call you to continue this good conversation or maybe ask you out on a date to get to know you better, in a coffee shop wajameni. But this horny goat has some serious issues going on that he decided a civilised conversation in a pub was an invite for coitus. And now it is your fault.
A man shot and killed another man. Apparently, they were fighting over a woman. Both men were married to other women. Someone reported, after the incident. “Two families ruined by one woman.”
Sorry? Because of the woman? Two grown men who knew they were not married to the woman they were risking it all for, how have they been absolved from blame?
We say it lightly, African men do not die, women kill them. Woe betide you if your husband dies even from obvious causes like car accidents, terminal illness, or even suicide. You had a hand in it you witch. What I fail to comprehend is that if we had this much power as is suggested, why would we stop at killing our husbands yawa? We would include evil mothers-in-law and their daughters and maybe even co-wives.
If I could make a grown man do what I want, including leaving his family and handing over all of his worldly belongings to me, why would I keep it local? I would go international and not stop at one, I would have at least 50 men in rotation, I am not greedy or else I would enslave every man I set eyes on.
Men need to take responsibility for their behaviour. You cannot pick and choose when you are a sane adult and when you are a wandering goat in heat. Women are not responsible for what you do. Actually, no adult is responsible for your bad actions or good ones for that matter. Make the choices you make and stand on them. Own your bad manners, immaturity and stupidity.
