The late nominated MP Joseph Hamisi Denar will be remembered in Parliament not only for his service, but also for the generosity that colleagues say endeared him to many.
National Assembly Clerk Samuel Njoroge recounted the memories on Thursday during Denar’s requiem mass at Ridgeways Baptist Church, where mourners alternated between laughter and tears.
“In Parliament, we have a modest restaurant for MPs,” Njoroge said.
He recalled receiving concerns that some staff members appeared more enthusiastic when serving certain MPs.
According to him, waiters often rushed to attend to Denar, sometimes several at once.
Curious about the pattern, Njoroge said he inquired internally and was informed that Denar was considered particularly appreciative of staff efforts.
“I asked the head of hospitality why, and he said that when you served Denar tea worth Sh500, he would give a Sh3,500 tip,” Njoroge told mourners.
He added that at one point the Assembly considered regulating tipping, but Denar was among those who preferred that the practice remain voluntary.
“He said they gave from the heart, and that staff did not demand anything. He felt it was simply fair,” Njoroge said.
Njoroge also remembered Denar as a calm and thoughtful legislator who occasionally sought guidance on parliamentary matters.
“He would come to me whenever there was a controversial vote and ask whether it was necessary to participate,” he said.
According to Njoroge, the late MP—popularly known as “Tui”—preferred modesty and often avoided attention.
“He chose to highlight others rather than himself and often stayed unnoticed,” he said.
Colleagues described Denar as considerate and generous, someone whose kindness extended well beyond Parliament. They said he readily offered time, advice, and support whenever he could.
“Joseph made generosity look effortless,” Njoroge added.
“He reminded us that leadership isn’t only about power or position, but also about simple acts that make people feel valued.”
Deputy Majority Leader and Kilifi North MP Owen Baya described Denar as an influential figure in the coastal region who supported and mentored many.
“He touched the lives of many people, and many politicians will say that Denar was part of their journey. As Kenya Kwanza, we have lost a resource mobiliser and a pillar of the party,” Baya said.
Among those who attended the service were MPs Oku Kaunya (Teso North), Liza Chelule (Nakuru County), and Irene Kasalu (Kitui County), as well as former MPs Naomi Shaban, Dan Kazungu and Ann Nyokabi.
An overnight vigil will be held at his home in Mazeras, Kwale County, on Friday, December 12.
National Assembly Speaker Moses Wetang'ula is expected to lead a parliamentary delegation on Saturday, December 13, for the final farewell and burial ceremony.
Denar died on Saturday, December 6, at the age of 56.
