In the game of love, erogenous zones serve as doorways into new dimensions of pleasure. If until now you’ve restricted your lovemaking to lips, breasts and genitals, it’s time to explore and arouse the rest of the body.
1. What is an erogenous zone?
Erogenous zones are those parts of your body that get aroused when stimulated. The most obvious zones are genitals but sensitive areas can be found all over the body. In fact, when aroused enough, the entire body, with its millions of nerve endings, can become one giant erogenous zone.
2. They are all over the body
The most obvious erogenous zones are the area around the penis and vagina, the mouth (including the lips and tongue), the butt, the breasts/nipples, the earlobes, the shoulders, the neck and the navel. Other sensitive areas are the eyelids, underarms, scrotum, inner surface of the hips, inside of the thighs, in the crook of the elbows, behind the knees and so on. There are also erogenous zones within the body, like the rectum or the “G-spot.” Start exploring what “works” for you and your partner.
3. Everyone is different
Think of the erogenous zones as a kind of body map. Each person is a new territory, and to map the territory correctly you must go exploring. A woman may go wild when you lick her nipples, but it may hardly excite another. One man may get turned on if you stimulate his anus, while another may be grossed out. It depends on the individual – what works for one person may have no effect on another.
4. Touch and feel
Communication is the key if you and your partner wants to master your erogenous zones. Explore each other’s body fully, and don’t be afraid to try something new. Try out different kinds of caresses to find out the sensitivity of his or her erogenous zones. A light play of the fingertips may be right in one area, while scratching, pinching or vigorous rubbing might be required to activate others. But finding that out needs patience and paying attention to your partner’s reactions.
5. Look, no hands!
With all this talk of stroking and stimulation, don’t forget that many instruments can be used to stimulate the erogenous zones. Some areas even turn into erogenous zones simply because a certain trick is used. For example, touching someone’s eyelid may not be arousing, but touching them with your wet lips may do the trick. Perhaps begin with the mouth, and see what different effects it can create in the other by using your lips, your tongue, your breath, or nibbling gently with the teeth. Biting or scratching or spanking may also bring some otherwise dormant zone to life.
