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Good sex Is not for cowards
Dr. David Schnarch is the author of Intimacy and Desire , a book on passion in long term relationships. In a nutshell he says that sexual maturity is a product of anxiety. So, you know that discomfort that you feel when you try out new things during sex? That feeling of inadequacy and vulnerability? That shift in how you think about a certain sexual activity so that you can participate in it? He says that that feeling? That anxiety? That disco...
What is my girl thinking?
Dear Val,Thanks for all those beautiful answers you give us to our many sex-related problems.Background: I am 36 years old, work as a middle level manager in some multinational company. There is this wonderful and pleasant woman, 38, who works for another multinational as a very senior and top manager. She is strong and powerful in her place of work (one of the things that attracted me to her). We kept bumping into each at corporate functions ...
How can I keep the lawn mowed Permanently?
I am 25 years old. I have a problem with my pubic hair. Every time I shave it it's back within two days. My question: is there anything I can use to get rid of my hair completely? If yes, where can I get it. LilyHey Lily, you know the funny thing about hair? It grows back. It is just designed that way. If you decide that you want bald nethers, then just settle in for bikini waxes, shaving and possible laser treatments. I asked aro...
Size Matters and Wet Dreams
Dear Valentine, I am now 27 years old and I have this problem: my penis is too small. It grows to about four inches when it erects and after erection it shrinks to about two inches. Please advise me on what to do to have it maintained at eight and a half inches when it is erect and six inches when it is normal. Eric Aaaawww Eric, is that all? Only eight and a half inches? As long as you are in the shop why...
I love watching porn, can I get affected?
Dear Valentine,I am an 18-year-old girl and I started masturbating at 14 and I still do it. I also watch porn, can I get affected? My longtime boyfriend watches porn too, is it risky?MarionWell Marion, I am happy that you are masturbating. I believe that masturbation is the beginning of a woman’s ownership of her body, her sexuality and her sexual expression. So congratulations. Masturbation will give you a road map of what your bod...
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